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There is so much sadness in this world. And what angers me are the spouses that walk out the door because it is too hard???? That is what marriage counseling is for. My faith saved meeven though I first cursed God. He was faithful and I pray you all feel His presence.
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It shows you how similar we really are. And how no matter how bad things may get, we are never as alone as we think. I would end this by summarizing the advice in one tidy section. But once again, a reader named Margo did it far better than I ever could.
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When kids arrive, it will be easy to fall into a frenzy of making them the only focus of your life…do not forget the love that produced them. You must keep that love alive and strong to feed them love.
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The most important factor in a relationship is not communication, but respect What I can tell you is the 1 thing, most important above all else is respect. Common examples given by many readers: NEVER talk shit about your partner or complain about them to your friends.
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No secrets. Have a crush on someone else? Discuss it. Laugh about it. Had a weird sexual fantasy that sounds ridiculous? Be open about it. Nothing should be off-limits. Secrets divide you. These emails, too, are surprisingly repetitive.
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You and your partner will grow and change in unexpected ways; embrace it Over the course of 20 years we both have changed tremendously. Which is why you need to make sure you and your partner know how to fight. Get good at fighting The relationship is a living, breathing thing. They are: Advice given by readers included: Never insult or name-call your partner.
Put another way: This solves nothing and just makes the fight twice as bad as it was before.